Deep down we all want the best for our children. We want them to have the world … sometimes it’s the world we didn’t have! We want them to have the opportunities we had and we want them to have the opportunities that we were denied too. We want them to have everything we didn’t have – the rest is easy.
To find out why you need to be careful what you want for your children, watch this week’s 3 minute episode of Soul Star Connections webTV … Shifting Gears® in Your Life.
Have you realised this? Let me know … leave your comments below and I will come back and join your conversation.
with Love, Cheryl
PS … If you would like to update your programming to benefit your children I would love to guide you. My Shifting Gears® Home Study program is designed to show you how to do this.
You can find out more about this program here …
Deep down we all want the very best for our children. We want them to have the world … sometimes it’s the world we didn’t have! We want them to have the opportunities we had and also the opportunities that were denied us. We want them to have everything we didn’t have – the rest is easy.
So what are you teaching them? Are you teaching them the same beliefs that were taught to you? Are you keeping the same family and cultural values that you know alive in your children? It never ceases to amaze me just how deep our beliefs and programming run within the sub-conscious mind when I am working with people in the Shifting Gears® workshop.
So today I want you to ask yourself … do these beliefs and values serve you … and will they serve your children? Are you teaching your children to be like their grandparents who were your teachers?
Do you want them to have the lifestyle, the health and the financial success that their grandparents have/had? Are their grandparents in charge of their health? … notice I didn’t say in charge of their sickness! Are they financially independent or are they tied to a government handout … one that might not even be available for your children?
And now your parents may have it all worked out … and I really hope so … but very often they are struggling to make ends meet and are living very frugally … and is this what you want for your children?
My message today is for you to take a long hard look at your children’s grandparents. Now I have no doubt that they love them to the moon and back … but is this the lifestyle and the health and the financial success that you want for your children?
If the answer is ‘no’ … then you need to look inside yourself … come to really know and understand the beliefs and the limitations that have been passed onto you and which you are passing onto your children. If you want things to be different for your children you need to pass on different beliefs, different values and different attitudes than those that were passed onto you.
Now I know this can be challenging … particularly in tight family relationships … but your children are our future … what do you want for the future? You cannot teach your children something you do not know. If you are not constantly upgrading your beliefs and your values then you have nothing new to pass onto your children.
I would love to know what you think of this … have you had issues here?
Have you realised this? So leave your comments below and I will come back and join your conversation.