SSC webTV #06 … What holds you back from achieving your dreams?

The second part of our New Year message is where we look at what it is that stops us from achieving our innermost desires and goals and what it is that you need to do.

It is a little longer than usual and to find out how you can forge ahead this year powerfully, watch this week’s 7 minute episode of Soul Star Connections webTV … Shifting Gears® in Your Life.

I’d love to hear about your dreams, desires and goals … so share below and I will come back and join your conversation.

with Love, Cheryl

 

PS … If you would like to shift from ego perspective to living from your soul base and get more out of life, I’d love to help you and my Be Your Own Healer … Be Your Own Life Coach Home Study program will do just that.

You can find out more about that program here …

http://soulstarconnections.com.au/be-your-own-healer-be-your-own-life-coach/

 

Video Transcript:

Well, we are into the second week of the new year … 2013 … What intentions have you set?  What new year’s resolutions did you set for yourself?  What was that thing that you identified as being the thing that you are most looking forward to in 2013?  Do you think it is achievable?  How important is it to you?  How will you feel if it is not forthcoming?

Last week I promised that we would look at what it is that stops us from achieving our dreams and our goals and what we need to do about that.

I’ve spent some time looking at that … what it is that stops us from achieving our innermost desires … whether that’s a desire to sing, or a desire to dance, a desire to help others, to motivate others, maybe heal others, or a desire for a trip around the world.  No matter what it is, what is it that stops us from achieving those really big things?

I looked at what it is that stops us from doing the thing that we so intimately want to do … the thing that brings us alive … what it is that stops us from making a living doing the thing that that we love the most.   I looked at what stops us and I looked at why it is that we can feel so envious or jealous of somebody else that’s doing that very thing that we long to do … or the thing that brings them the joy … and they’re making a living out of it … and they’re making a lot of money out of it.  We often feel envious and judgemental of that and I looked at why it is that some people can be successful doing the thing that they love and why others are not … and I have found that it comes back to the programming that we have formulated in our minds … often deep in the subconscious.

But that’s not all of it … I’ve known people to uncover their programming and still they do not move from it.  Still they do not do the thing that brings them the most joy … so I had to look at that.  I had to look at why it is that we don’t update the programs in our subconscious that we are running on.

I found that people have to admit something in their life is not working … and I found they had to change some of their ideas … therefore their ‘way of thinking’ which is so personal is at stake.  It means we have to question ourselves in a way that gets to the very core of us … and that can be very confronting to the ego or the personality … and sometimes that part of us has such a hold on us that the life-force can barely be heard.

It means they might be’ wrong’ somewhere … it means there might be some malfunctioning program going on in their minds … and that can be hard to face.

It can be harder to wipe the egg-yolk off our face than to die sometimes … and so we get stuck.

Well I looked at that … initially to find a way around it … and what I found was even more confronting … I found that it’s not my job to do that … that job lies with you.

It’s my job to cut through the crap … and to do that as quickly as possible … so that you can live a joyous life, so that you can feel the vitality of healthy living … so that you can do the things you so desperately want to do.

It’s not my job to give you a placebo … or a bandaid.

It’s not even my job to give you sympathy … for that is just judgement.

It says “You don’t have the ability to change your life circumstances” …

It says “You don’t have the power within you to fix whatever it is that needs fixing in your life”

… and I know different from that … and I know it without a shadow of doubt.

The reason I know this is because those people who do not have that power are already dead … their life-forces are already implementing those changes in another realm or another dimension and they’re gone.  They’re no longer part of this physical life … well not this time anyway.  You see, it is your life-force that gives you the power to do this and it is your life-force that needs to be heard … and it’s always there ready at any stage to do this.  All you have to do is realise it …breathe it in … and follow it … and we need to release ourselves from the stranglehold that the ego or personality can have on us.

Now that’s easy to say and a little harder to do but it can be done … and it is easier to do than you think.  I have always noticed when people have moved through the Be Your Own Healer… Be Your Own Life Coach and the Living Authentically programs that they get a huge sense of relief in understanding how this works … and how much easier it is to live this way.

So as we welcome in 2013 … I would like to express my wish for you this year.

My wish for you this year is that you have the courage to find your dream … that you have the courage to follow your dream … that you have the courage to find whatever it is that is holding you back from your dream … and that you get to know and feel the joy of whatever your dream is.

My wish for you in 2013 is that you have the most powerful year of your life … the most loving, the most fun-filled … the most healthiest … the most rewarding and should our paths cross more personally or I can help you to that end … that would be sheer bliss for me.

So once again I wish for you …

A HAPPY NEW YEAR … HAPPY 2013 … and HAPPY NEW WORLD …

and I’d love to know what your dreams are … so if you feel inclined to share just drop us a line and share below … I will come back and join your conversation.

Comments

  1. CHRIS CATTO says:

    HI CHERYL,
    I LOVE YOUR POSITIVE TALKS. IT REMINDS ME WHERE I WAS THAT DAY I MET YOU AND HOW I WILL NEVER GO BACK. I AM BACK AT COOBER PEDY WORKING WITH AGED ABORIGINAL ELDERS. I CAME BACK FOR XMAS AND SAW FAMILY AND FOR NOW I STILL NEED TO BE HERE. I WILL EMAIL YOU MY JOURNEY AND I AM PROUD OF THE PERSON I HAVE BECOME THROUGH IT. IT IS A TESTAMENT THAT YOU CAN ACHIEVE EVEN FROM THE DARKEST PLACE I HAVE BEEN. MY FAVOURITE SAYING IS ‘THIS DAY WILL PASS’ AT TIMES I DID’NT BELIEVE IT BUT IT DOES PASS AND LIFE GOES FORWARD. YES 2013 IS MY YEAR AND I HOPE IT WILL BE YOURS TO.

    MUCH LOVE TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. CHRIS CATTO.

  2. Hi Chris .. You are still getting around!! So glad you are enjoying the work there with the Elders – it would be fabulous. You have the whole world to look forward to and take some time to let yourself know that you deserve all good! Loved to be able to help and love to see you when you are back this way next… xo

  3. First off I would like to say excellent blog! I had a quick question in which I’d like to ask if you do not mind. I was interested to know how you center yourself and clear your thoughts before writing. I have had a tough time clearing my mind in getting my thoughts out. I truly do take pleasure in writing however it just seems like the first 10 to 15 minutes are wasted just trying to figure out how to begin. Any suggestions or hints? Thank you!

  4. Hi Jeremiah … the best thing to do to center yourself before you start writing to breathe deeply into the bottom part of your lungs … it will feel like you are blowing up a balloon in your belly … and get a breathing rhythm established. Breathe in through your nose and out through your mouth, deeply and fully. This will engage your life-force and your writing will happen. By focussing on your breathing rather than trying to get rid of any thoughts will disengage your ego or human-ness and allow your writing to flow from your heart. Good luck, let me know how you go. :)

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